Tuesday, July 29, 2008
My Worst Nightmare
Ryan offered to pick up Byron at the airport, so I decided to get home to see if Byron had called. Not to my surprise I saw that I had missed Byron's phone call, but he had left a voice mail. I pushed all the right numbers and waited calmly for the message to play. As the voice mail started playing, I could hear environmental noise from an airplane, and then the most frightening sound I had ever heard. A woman was screaming, what to me, sounded like out of complete fear. The scream continued for the longest 3 seconds of my life. I then heard Byron's voice start to speak, and then nothing. The message ended. My heart stopped, my hands shook, and tears filled my eyes, while panic filled my chest. "What was that?!! What was that scream?" I yelled as I paced my family room. I listened again, same scream, same panic. Again, I listened, I cried, I paced. Over and over, I listened to the messenger as sweet little Wyatt repeated, "Whas wong, Mama? Whas wong?" What do I say? "I think your daddy is on a hijacked plane?" I decide to call Byron's voicemail, forgetting that we switched phones and Byron might not know how to get my voicemail. I was bawling, begging for Byron to pick up the phone. "Why is there a woman screaming? Where are you? Why are you calling me when you should be on the plane?"
I was frantic. I tried to call my mom's house. No answer, I left a sobbing message asking her to call me. I called her cell. Why doesn't my mother ever keep her phone on? Then I was terrified to remember, my father was also on that plane. By this point, I've listened to that woman's scream at least 10 times. I've started to think the plane as been hijacked and Wyatt will not know his father or grandfather. Overreacting, perhaps, but you didn't hear that scream. I decide to call Ryan, I'm at the point where I have no idea what to do. I started crying, as Ryan assures me everything was fine.
"What airline is he on?"
I have no idea."
"Do you know what flight number it is?"
"Byron never told me. He's supposed to be home by 10:30."
I'm sure he's fine, Sommer."
Finally my mother calls me, staying calm, but wanting to know exactly what I heard on that message. She hangs up to listen to the rest of her messages to see if my father called. He did.
"Connie, Connie, Connie. She's not there." End of message.
What does that mean? My mother and grandmother decided to come over. While I wait, Ryan callsed with the airline and flight number that Byron should be on. I was able to find it on the Internet and I sat at the kitchen table staring at a little plane moving on the screen. My mom and grandmother join me ans we listen to the woman screaming again, and again. My grandmother calmly maked a phone call to the airport. "The plane as landed!" But was Byron and my dad on that flight? I called the cell phone again, and again. No answer. Time passes by like an eternity, until finally! Byron, completely unaware of the worst hour and a half of my life, called to tell me he's at the airport. Sobbing, I wail, "Where the hell of you been?" After a brief, yet strongly emotional conversation, I explain what I've been through, and Byron apologizes over and over again. He thought he had hung up before the phone started recorded, and he had no idea what that scream was. He wasn't even sitting near a woman.
We learned a lesson that night. We need to communicate more. I've always been so passive about Byron and his travels. People ask me where Byron is when he goes hunting. Haven't the foggiest idea! Why didn't I know the name of the airlines? The fight number? I know better now. Had I known more information about the flight, I would have known that Byron called one minute before the plan was scheduled to take off. Knowing about that one minute might have kept me rational and calm, not frantically jumping to conclusions. Most importantly, I was reminded how much I love my father and my husband. I did not want to live my life without my best friend. I wanted Wyatt to always know his father. I was so glad to see their faces.
Sunday, July 27, 2008
Busy, Busy, Busy
Saturday, Wyatt and I didn't wake up until 10 AM, very very unusual for us, but sooooo needed. We spent the day swimming and relaxing at the pool, waiting for Byron to get back from his fishing trip to Alaska (That is a totally different story that requires its own post, coming soon.)
Friday, July 25, 2008
Strangers
Wednesday, July 23, 2008
Tuesday, July 22, 2008
I must confess...
If you are familiar with the show, then you know the sister-in-law Jodi. The red head who helps a lot, well this blog is authored by her sister. Read it and be amazed how quickly your life gets wasted away. If you are going to commit to it, then may I suggest starting at the May archives and working your way up.
On a totally unrelated subject, did you know that toilet cleaner is really good for cleaner other parts of your bathroom? Someone told me that, so I tried it and I was amazed how bright my downstairs shower got. My bathtub too. My master shower, not so much, because it is crap and was installed be morons before we moved in (Please no comments that I shouldn't call Byron or my dad "morons." They didn't install the shower.) Anyone want to donate to the "Sommer-needs-a-new-bathroom-but-decided-to-throw-away-her-career-to-reap-the-benefits-of-guiding-her-own-child-to-be-a-upstanding-member-of-society-and-so-her-income-is-no-longer-what-it-should-be" fund?
I need to go, gotta go bake a pineapple gooey butter cake, love that Paula Deen. Here's the recipe (my, I am full on links today) Gooey Butter Cake
Monday, July 21, 2008
I'm grounded...
In the meantime, enjoy our little family of puppets Wyatt and I made to entertain ourselves today. I'm sure you can figure out who is who!
Sunday, July 20, 2008
Let's all breathe in...and out...
Thursday, July 17, 2008
Open Mouth, Insert Foot
Tuesday, July 15, 2008
If it weren't for blogs...
Sunday, July 13, 2008
AAAAARRRRRHHHHGGGGGG!
Saturday, July 12, 2008
Thank you for your patience
Wish me luck!
Friday, July 11, 2008
Say Toast!

Sunday, July 6, 2008
Happy Fourth of July
It was a great weekend in Parawon. We didn't do anything different than weekends in the past, but my grandmother came which made it really special. Nini (as we call her) has the most loudest infectious laugh, which gets my mom and I both going (as much as Byron despises!). Friday was the fourth of July. We headed to Main street for the annual parade. The main focus of the parade is to collect as much saltwater taffy as possible. Wyatt loved the parade. There was so much to see, the horses and the firetrucks were his favorite. After the parade, it is tradition to head to the Dairy Freeze for an ice cream cone. Wyatt experienced his first bounce house at the Fireman's 4th of July Celebration at the park. I kept running into people and old friends that I knew. Parawon seems to be Las Vegas locals' getaway. As if we didn't do enough, Mom and I took Wyatt to the city swimming pool to keep giving him experiences swimming so he would keep practicing. After a nap, we had a BBQ of steak, corn on the cob, baked beans, and red, white, and blue cookies. By law, we couldn't do fireworks at the house, so after searching forever for the lighter, we piled into the truck to head to the park to light our own fireworks, only to discover my parents mistakenly bought "poppers" (you pull the string and it goes "pop!") and not actual fireworks. So we piled back into the truck and rushed home so we could be in the backyard in time for the big fireworks set off by the local firemen. I think its one of the best shows around, and to be in our own yard, just us, makes it that much better. Wyatt began to get sleepy and he just wanted to cuddle. He'd cuddle with Pappa then move onto Grammy, then Nini, then Daddy, and eventually me. Wyatt is all about equal opportunity!
Saturday morning, Gramma Jeri was driving through town on her way to visit family near SLC, so Byron, Wyatt and I took her to breakfast at the Parawon cafe for pancakes and omelets. During the very long wait, we ran into more old friends. After we sent Jeri on her way we rushed to get ready for a long four wheeler ride with neighbors across the street. I felt terrible because we made the neighbor wait for us, when all of her family went on a head of us. But we caught up and traveled up to Red Creek Reservoir. It was about a 2 hour ride and it was a lot of fun. Wyatt fell asleep during the last 30 minutes. We wrapped him in a shirt and used his hat to cover his face. We were filthy by the end of the trip. My poor mom's face was gray with a line across her forehead where her hat sat.
The rest of the trip was a lot of just hanging out and eating way too much. Wyatt starts his 2nd session of swim lessons tomorrow and 3 duffel bags of laundry await me, not to mention some major exercising and dieting. Which I need to say, I've really got to work on. I seem to be addicted to food these days, which a few years back, is how I gained a bunch of weight before. So I'm a little freaked out. I'm not obese by any means, but I have got to stop snacking and eating ALL THE TIME, and exercise more. Not that I'm making any excuses, but it is so dang hot, that jogging with a jogging stroller and 2 dogs (one of which is becoming an old fart) is downright impossible. But, if I'm going to go, then we're ALL going to go, so I've been trying to make time to just speed walk longer and hopefully burn some more calories that way. OK, that's the end of that rant!
Have a great week!
Thursday, July 3, 2008
We're off...again!
We're off to Parawon for parades, four wheeling, BBQ, fireworks! Be back soon!
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Wednesday, July 2, 2008
Tuesday, July 1, 2008
We're Back!
Friday we went to the beach, and if I had it my way, we would have spent everyday there. Wyatt loved building sandcastles and splashing in the water. Before we knew it, it was 3:00 in the afternoon. I think Wyatt and I could have stayed there until the sun went down. The salt water must have been in our systems still by dinner time because we were craving sea food, clams to be more specific. Taking the advice of the concierge, we headed to the Fish Market in Del Mar. We stuffed ourselves with clams and scallops, and just when I thought I couldn't fit anymore food into my tummy, I discovered they had creme brulee, my favorite! Needless to say, I'm a diet right now to make up for the weekend.
Saturday we decided to go to the San Diego Zoo, which I'm glad we did, because Wyatt loved it. I think his favorite animals were the elephants and the hippos, probably because they were the biggest to see! He was able to get so close to the hippo, and would get so disappointed when it would swim away. We bought him his own little hippo ("hippopatinus" as Wyatt says) to have all to himself. We ended the day with a train ride on the Balboa Park train and a picnic dinner of chicken and potato salad on La Jolla Beach at sunset. Byron was able to get some great pictures of Wyatt and we even got some nice family pictures with the sunset in the background.
I was sad to go home on Sunday. I didn't feel rested at all, and I knew another visit to the beach would be fun, but all good things must come to an end! Enjoy the pictures, there will be more!